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Heather's avatar

I went through a period in my life thinking I wasn't creative. I'm getting a divorce, and I realized my marriage wasn't working when I was singing in the shower, and my ex came it and told me to quiet down because my singing was like squawking. I felt the shower was my own personal space, where I could sound however I wanted. Then I realized my whole life should feel that way. When I started singing more, and he continued to complain, I held my convictions deeper.

Then, I read an account of a ceremony of the Quileute Tribe that would start with each member singing their song. Their song could have been given to them by their family, or a spirit, and was personal. That seemed really beautiful to me.

I started talking about singing with others, and was surprised by how many people would respond with "oh, I can't sing." And said they would be too afraid to sing around other people. I've been thinking about the collective consequence of that mindset. Seems like a handicap to be conditioned that a voice must sound a certain way to value a creative voice.

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Nina Berry's avatar

“creativity is too abundant to be lucrative”

This is such a potent heart to this essay. I went to design school in a west coast hipster Mecca city and came out of it feeling so numbed and disastrous and confused about where creativity comes from and who holds it. It has taken years to untangle the elitism that I built up around myself as a “creative” in that context, and I’m still unlearning. I love love love the anecdote about your grandma and the tissue boxes because that’s exactly it. I remember a professor telling us all that the citibank logo was first scrawled on a wet napkin inside a cafe and we were all supposed to be in awe about the absurdity and delight of that, but the truth is that creativity and “innovation” are pouring out of people all over the world all day long, teaching their grandchildren Chinese, germinating avocado pits in cut open milk cartons, fixing problems and not developing new products. Thanks for another beautifully written essay!

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